Talking about teenagers, it becomes a very interesting thing to discuss. you yourself can feel how much of this period there were many changes that are happening to you.
What a pity if a young age with vitality, joy, to optimal physical, intelligence and sense the height of passion just disappear because you are ‘one step’ in adolescence spent. One of the problems that teenagers today is ‘destroy’ and your future is a matter of sexual behavior is wrong and distorted currently mostly done by teenagers.
Adolescent Sexual Behavior
You must also have seen from various infotainment how artists idol you are doing MBA (Married By Accident or pregnant out of wedlock). Or maybe you could also see how one by one friend there who was pregnant because of extreme dating, or friends who have suffered because of abortion is done, or maybe you also know your age neighbor who now have to give up dropping out of school and have become mothers in a very early age. Are not you could’ve seen all these facts?
You can see that it pre-marital sexual activity (free sex) occurs not only in urban areas, such as Jakarta or Surabaya, but also in the regions. You can also see a shift in values concerning premarital sexual relations. If the previous assumption that teen sexual relationships can only take place if there is a deep emotional relationship with the opposite sex, but when these conditions have now changed. That it should be noted, too, that the sexual behavior of adolescents age is not only limited to the types of sexual relations before marriage, but other sexual behaviors, such as petting (90% of teens engage in “light” petting, 80% of teenagers involved in “heavy” petting) ; and masturbation. Not including sexual activity becomes ‘preamble’ or the introduction of, namely kissing, necking and touching the current menu as a ‘must’ dating young age.
Then how the concept of reproductive health education for adolescents in Islam?
Here are some ways about what to you all understand to be your reproductive life-not only-with healthy, but also true.
1. Recognize and understand your character as a teenager,
so you can act appropriately.
2. Understand who your identity so you can know what your life purpose and how you should live your life (including sexual life)
3. Understand what changes are happening to you and how to react properly
4. Understand that the sexual instinct you have is the nature
5. Understand and identify how the character of the sexual instinct that you possess
6. Understand how to control the sexual instinct that you possess
a. Prevent the fulfillment of the wrong (adultery and the introduction of activity)
b. Understand how the fulfillment of the sexual instinct is right
7. Understand that the purpose of the creation of the sexual instinct in you (humans) is to reproduction, and not just recreation
8. Understand how sexual behavior is right
9. Understand and identify a series of very young sexual behavior False
10. Understand the risks of sexual behavior is wrong / deviant
11. Know your reproductive organs and functions you and how you should care to do.
12. Understand the process of menstruation, ovulation (conception), erection and ejaculation
13. Understand how the process of conception (the formation of the fetus), pregnancy and birth occurred.
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(By: dr. Faizatul Rosyidah)
